Pre-Singles Curriculum

Mission Statements

Personal & Program

Personal Mission Statement

My mission is to create content that educates women on pre-planning necessary as a single adult individual by using my abilities as a teacher and writer and conscientiousness to encourage women into discovery and use of their gifts and talents before marital consideration.

Program Mission Statement

The mission of the Pre-Singles Counseling Coaching Curriculum is to prepare women to enter singleness and make sound life decisions through proper planning, research, and writing.

This section is under development. Last rev. 12/31/2020

Online Learning Content

Series Development

The following audio list reflects the foundation of the series.

Pre-Singles Counseling Lesson: Understanding the Gift of Singleness, An Orientation

Pre-Singles Counseling Lesson: The Mating Market & Mate Poaching

Pre-Singles Counseling Lesson: The Mate Switching Hypothesis

Pre-Singles Counseling Lesson: Mate Value & Mate Retention Behaviors

Pre-Singles Counseling Lesson: Mate Value & Mate Preference

Pre-Singles Counseling Lesson: Good Girls Don’t Date

Pre-Singles Counseling Lesson: Why Alpha Males Do Not Win in the End

Pre-Singles Counseling Case Study: Why Won’t You Let Me Hit?

Pre-Singles Counseling Case Study: 9/10, 7/8, 5/6, Which One Has Value?

Pre-Singles Counseling Case Study: When They See You as a 7/8

Pre-Singles Counseling Case Study: You Cannot Compete With a Baby

Audios will be added to this section in roughly two weeks.

This section is under development. Last rev. 12/31/2020, 1/6/2021, 1/16/2021, 1/26/2021

Pre-Singles Counseling Coaching Curriculum Audio Lectures

Understanding the Gift of Singleness, An Orientation

This orientation document provides the guiding mission and suggests strategies for how to become single before dating and/or marriage consideration.

Lesson: Mate Value and Mate Retention Behaviors

This lesson, titled "Mate Value and Mate Retention Behaviors," explores how mate value predicts mate retention for romantic partners who may be dating and/or married.

Lesson: Mate Value and Mate Preference

This lesson, titled "Mate Value and Mate Preference," explores how mate preference is predicated on the social expectation for mate value. Those who fall under the global standard of beauty are often perceived as higher value mates and are preferred.

The Mating Market

Lesson: The Mate Switching Hypothesis

This lesson titled, "The Mate Switching Hypothesis," explores how individuals mate switch based on mate value and/or mate preference.

Lesson: The Mating Market and Mate Poaching

This lesson titled, "The Mate Market and Mate Poaching," explores how high value individuals will mate poach when they feel the potential partner's mate is lower than high value, i.e., a lower value mate.

Case Study: Alpha Males Do Not Win in the End

This case study titled, "Alpha Males Do Not Win in the End," explores the strategies of alpha males and the concluding argument that they will eventually burn out resulting from those toxic-based strategies..

Dating & Rankings

Case Study: 9/10, 7/8, 5/6, Which One Has High Value?

This case study titled, "9/10, 7/8, 5/6: Which One Has High Value?" explores how men rank women based on a scale of one to 10, how men view their flexibility to move between rankings based on socially perceived physical attractiveness, and how decisions may affect one's mate value, both positively and negatively.

Lesson: Good Girls Don't Date

This lesson titled, "Good Girls Don't Date," explores how good girls should self-assess their potential and follow-through in the sex markets to determine if they have the capacity to navigate dating.

Case Study: When They See You as a 7/8

This case study titled, "When They See You as a 7/8," explores how social perception of female and/or 7/8s might be based on the argument that if you are a 7/8, you might fall under three areas (reasons): 1) you might be an alternative, 2) you may not be competitive, and/or 3) you may be a rebound in the dating market. This lecture is separated into the three videos in the last section.

Mating Frustration

Case Study: Why Won't You Let Me Hit?

The case study titled, "Why Won't You Let Me Hit?" explores the frustration a romantic partner might have with an individual with a restricted sociosexual orientation, who needs more time before he or she decides to pursue sex.

Case Study: You Cannot Compete With a Baby

This case study titled, "You Cannot Compete With a Baby," explores the misconception that our battles are with the ex-partner and their baby. However, the struggle is never with the physical baby. The struggle is with how your current partner treats his or her ex-partner as a baby that he feels he needs to comfort even to the detriment of a relationship with you.

When They See You As a 7/8: Three Reasons

You're An Alternative

You're Not Competitive

You May Be a Rebound

General Planning Objectives Audio Lectures

Establishing Objectives

This brief video outlines the objectives you should consider as you create life plans. It is a section of the Pre-Singles Counseling Coaching Curriculum Orientation video.

Academic Planning

This brief video outlines the academic planning objectives you should consider as you create life plans. It is a section of the Pre-Singles Counseling Coaching Curriculum Orientation video.

Career Planning

This brief video outlines the career planning objectives you should consider as you create life plans. It is a section of the Pre-Singles Counseling Coaching Curriculum Orientation video.

Pre-Marriage Planning Objectives

Pre-Marital Planning

This brief video outlines the pre-marital planning objectives you should consider as you create life plans. It is a section of the Pre-Singles Counseling Coaching Curriculum Orientation video.

Prenuptial Agreement Planning

This brief video outlines the prenuptial agreement planning objectives you should consider as you create life plans. It is a section of the Pre-Singles Counseling Coaching Curriculum Orientation video.

Dating With Purpose Plan

This brief video outlines the dating with purpose planning objectives you should consider as you create life plans. It is a section of the Pre-Singles Counseling Coaching Curriculum Orientation video.

Long-Term Planning Objectives

Two-Year Planning

This brief video outlines the two-year planning objectives you should consider as you create life plans. It is a section of the Pre-Singles Counseling Coaching Curriculum Orientation video.

Five-Year Planning

This brief video outlines the five-year planning objectives you should consider as you create life plans. It is a section of the Pre-Singles Counseling Coaching Curriculum Orientation video.

Your Assignment, Gift & Talent Plan

This brief video outlines your assignment, gift, and talent planning objectives you should consider as you create life plans. It is a section of the Pre-Singles Counseling Coaching Curriculum Orientation video.

Legacy Planning Objectives

Tax Planning

This brief video outlines tax planning objectives you should consider as you create life plans. It is a section of the Pre-Singles Counseling Coaching Curriculum Orientation video.

Estate Planning

This brief video outlines estate planning objectives you should consider as you create life plans. It is a section of the Pre-Singles Counseling Coaching Curriculum Orientation video.

Trusts Planning

This brief video outlines trusts planning objectives you should consider as you create life plans. It is a section of the Pre-Singles Counseling Coaching Curriculum Orientation video.

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